Sunday, August 25, 2024

When I'm Dead by Hannah Morrissey 🔖🔖

First published October 31, 2023

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On a bone-chilling October night, Medical Examiner Rowan Winthorp investigates the death of her daughter’s best friend. Hours later, the tragedy hits even closer to home when she makes a devastating discovery—her daughter, Chloe, is gone. But, not without a trace.

A morbid mosaic of clues forces Rowan and her husband to question how deeply they really knew their daughter. As they work closely to peel back the layers of this case, they begin to unearth disturbing details about Chloe and her secret transgressions…details that threaten to tear them apart.

Amidst the noise of navigating her newfound grief and reconciling the sins of her past, an undeniable fact rings true for Rowan: karma has finally come to collect. (source: goodreads)

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I had a hard time with a few things about this, mostly about style and choice of words. While I finished this one in just a few days due to wanting to see how it tied up, it is not one I need to follow up on any previous or further installments in the series. 

The Unbearable Lightness of Being by Milan Kundera 🔖


First published January 1, 1984
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Literary awards: Los Angeles Times Book Prize for Fiction 1984, Prix Aujourd'hui 1993
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In The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Milan Kundera tells the story of a young woman in love with a man torn between his love for her and his incorrigible womanizing and one of his mistresses and her humbly faithful lover. This magnificent novel juxtaposes geographically distant places, brilliant and playful reflections, and a variety of styles ... (source: goodreads)
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I did not enjoy this one. Maybe it's because I am just *not* a philosopher and there was much philosophy in this book. Maybe it's because I could not relate to any of the characters and I didn't like any of them. Maybe it's because said characters didn't develop or grow at all. Either way, not my cup of tea.

Saturday, August 17, 2024

The Nowhere Girls by Amy Reed 🔖🔖🔖🔖

The Nowhere GirlsFirst published October 10, 2017
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Literary awards: Amelia Elizabeth Walden Award Nominee 2018

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Three misfits come together to avenge the rape of a fellow classmate and in the process trigger a change in the misogynist culture at their high school transforming the lives of everyone around them in this searing and timely story.

Who are the Nowhere Girls?

They’re everygirl. But they start with just three:

Grace Salter is the new girl in town, whose family was run out of their former community after her southern Baptist preacher mom turned into a radical liberal after falling off a horse and bumping her head.

Rosina Suarez is the queer punk girl in a conservative Mexican immigrant family, who dreams of a life playing music instead of babysitting her gaggle of cousins and waitressing at her uncle’s restaurant.

Erin Delillo is obsessed with two things: marine biology and Star Trek: The Next Generation, but they aren’t enough to distract her from her suspicion that she may in fact be an android.

When Grace learns that Lucy Moynihan, the former occupant of her new home, was run out of town for having accused the popular guys at school of gang rape, she’s incensed that Lucy never had justice. For their own personal reasons, Rosina and Erin feel equally deeply about Lucy’s tragedy, so they form an anonymous group of girls at Prescott High to resist the sexist culture at their school, which includes boycotting sex of any kind with the male students.

Told in alternating perspectives, this groundbreaking novel is an indictment of rape culture and explores with bold honesty the deepest questions about teen girls and sexuality. (Source: goodreads)

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I thought I might enjoy this one based on the information on the back of the book. I was not disappointed. Though, I have to point out that no one "suspects she may actually be an android" as much as she wanted to be an android. I loved that the three main characters were so vastly different and yet this did not inhibit friendship and connection. I liked that the main traits presented for each girl (Christian, lesbian, autistic) were not part of a need to change any of those characteristics. No one was made fun of by the other and each was allowed to be who they happened to be. Each individual way they dealt with their angst was given equal space without diminishing that is how some people experience the world. There was good character development as well.

The biggest drawback for me may be a spoiler, so I'll just say that "single" is also an acceptable part of life.

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Why was this banned?  obscene sexual activities including rape involving minors; alcohol use; and excessive/frequent profanity

My take -- 

Obscene sexual activities including rape involving minors:  I would hope we would think rape was obscene. There are other sexual activities among minors that appeared to include consent which some may consider "graphic", though I would not put it in the "obscene" category. 

Alcohol use: there are some high school parties where alcohol is included. Some of the girls are "encouraged" to become drunk so they are easier to take advantage of. 

Excessive/frequent profanity: 47 F words, 22 S word. Minor use of the B word. Mention of some body parts using technical terms, such as "clit".  I recall one use of "dick", followed by "pic". 

What I thought would be part of the ban .... slurs such as "dyke" and "spic" against one of the main characters. Abortion is also mentioned in passing. Lastly, a reference to a boy who raped a girl and "Even with eyewitnesses, even with video evidence, he still only got three months. Because he was rich. Because he was white."

Would I want my kid reading this? Absolutely. Then we can have great discussions about consent and how to treat others, and hopefully teach him to be one of the guys who stops gross behavior amongst his peers. 

Thursday, August 15, 2024

The Ranger's Apprentice: The Ruins of Gorlan by John Flanagan 🔖🔖🔖🔖🔖

First published November 1, 2004

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Literary awards: Rebeca Caudill Young Readers' Book Award Nominee 2008 
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They have always scared him in the past — the Rangers, with their dark cloaks and shadowy ways. The villagers believe the Rangers practice magic that makes them invisible to ordinary people. And now 15-year-old Will, always small for his age, has been chosen as a Ranger's apprentice. What he doesn't yet realize is that the Rangers are the protectors of the kingdom. Highly trained in the skills of battle and surveillance, they fight the battles before the battles reach the people. And as Will is about to learn, there is a large battle brewing. The exiled Morgarath, Lord of the Mountains of Rain and Night, is gathering his forces for an attack on the kingdom. This time, he will not be denied....
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Dear family friends recommended this one to me a few years ago. I finally got to it and was not disappointed at all. I found it captivating, and the character development was amazing. This was so fun. Recommending it to my friends.

Monday, August 5, 2024

What My Bones Know: A Memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma by Stephanie Foo 🔖🔖🔖🔖


First published February 22, 2022 

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Literary awards: Goodreads Choice Award Nominee for Memoir & Autobiography 2022

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A searing memoir of reckoning and healing by acclaimed journalist Stephanie Foo, investigating the little-understood science behind complex PTSD and how it has shaped her life

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In this deeply personal and thoroughly researched account, Foo interviews scientists and psychologists and tries a variety of innovative therapies. She returns to her hometown of San Jose, California, to investigate the effects of immigrant trauma on the community, and she uncovers family secrets in the country of her birth, Malaysia, to learn how trauma can be inherited through generations. Ultimately, she discovers that you don't move on from trauma--but you can learn to move with it.

Powerful, enlightening, and hopeful, What My Bones Know is a brave narrative that reckons with the hold of the past over the present, the mind over the body--and examines one woman's ability to reclaim agency from her trauma. (Source: goodreads)

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I became aware of this book when a client mentioned it to me and I had to join in the journey to read through it. I am so glad I did. Not only could I relate in may ways to how trauma shaped Stephanie, I related to a lot of her healing journey. As a bonus, I learned many things I can use to help others. 

Highly recommended. 

Saturday, August 3, 2024

A Man Lay Dead by Ngaio Marsh 🔖🔖🔖


First published January 1, 1934
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Crime comes to a country house.

This classic from the Golden Age of British mystery opens during a country-house party between the two world wars—servants bustling, gin flowing, the gentlemen in dinner jackets, the ladies all slink and smolder. Even more delicious: The host, Sir Hubert Handesley, has invented a new and especially exciting version of that beloved parlor entertainment, The Murder Game . . . (source: goodreads)

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Good old fashioned whodunnit. I enjoy mysteries where the clues are all there. No need to own, though. Might recommend for fun reading.